betrayal trauma
Are You at War with Arousal?
What does it mean to be a biblically sexual man? Can masculine men also be deeply romantic? And how can we stop lusting and learn to embrace true beauty in other people? For many Christians, sexuality has primarily been taught through the lens of behavior.
Do not lust.
Do not look at pornography.
Do not cross boundaries.
Those boundaries matter. Purity and sexual integrity matter. But what happens when our entire understanding of sexual wholeness becomes reduced to whether we are “doing good” or “doing bad”?
July 20, 2026
