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I Know God Is Good, So Why Am I Still Hurting? with Willow Weston

You know God is good. You love Jesus. So why are you still hurting? In this powerful conversation with author and Collide founder Willow Weston, we explore how unhealed wounds impact our marriages, parenting, and closest relationships. Discover why faith doesn’t mean pretending you’re okay, how spiritual truths can sometimes become Band-Aids for deeper pain, and how inviting Jesus into our brokenness can bring healing that reaches far beyond ourselves.

Recovering From 10+ Years of Bad Advice

What happens when the people you trust genuinely want to help—but their advice leaves you with more shame, confusion, and hurt? For more than 10 years, we kept asking for help and receiving advice that wasn’t actually helping. In this episode, we share some of the bad advice we had to unlearn, how it shaped the way we saw ourselves and God, and what we eventually learned about finding people who are truly equipped to help us heal.

Is Porn Cheating When We’re Dating?

Is porn cheating when you’re dating? Maybe the bigger question isn’t whether it technically crosses a line, but what pornography is forming in us. In this episode, we unpack sexual integrity, exclusivity, fantasy, and what it really means to prepare your heart, mind, and body for covenant.

What Is Your Heart Hungry For? Understanding What’s Beneath the Porn Struggle with Shawn Bonneteau

What if your struggle with pornography isn’t only about sexual desire? What if underneath the behavior is a heart longing to feel safe, wanted, reassured, comforted, or loved? In our conversation with Shawn Bonneteau, we explore the “hungry heart,” what our behaviors can reveal about our deeper needs, and why lasting freedom is about more than simply stopping porn—it’s about healing what’s underneath and learning to lead your heart well.

Taking Back Ground: When God Redeems the Places That Once Held You Captive

What if the places connected to your deepest regret didn’t have to haunt you forever? On our 13th wedding anniversary, we went back to some of the places tied to Clint’s addiction and betrayal—not to relive the past, but to pray, reclaim what had been lost, and create a new memory together. What happened reminded us that redemption doesn’t erase the past—it changes what the past gets to mean.

What The Odyssey Gets Right About Pornography: The Siren Song of Desire

What if pornography isn’t really about sex—but about the deeper longing underneath it? In this episode, we unpack a powerful scene from *The Odyssey*, the false promises pornography makes, the sexual narratives that shaped us, and how healing in Jesus can rewrite our story and change what we pass on to the next generation.

Who’s Influencing Your Recovery? The People Around You Matter

Who you surround yourself with in recovery matters. In this episode, we explore how the right community can help you process pain, bring hidden struggles into the light, grow in hope, and move toward restoration. Whether you’re wondering if you’ve outgrown your current recovery group or you and your spouse are ready to begin healing alongside other couples, this conversation is an invitation to consider who is influencing your recovery—and where God may be leading you next.

Heal the Boy, Free the Man: Outgrowing Porn with Drew Boa

In this episode with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material and author of Outgrow Porn, we explore a deeper approach to pornography recovery. Learn how childhood experiences, unprocessed emotions, attachment needs, and sexual triggers can shape pornography use—and how healing, practical tools, safe community, and Jesus can help men outgrow porn and experience lasting freedom.