In this episode with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material and author of Outgrow Porn, we explore a deeper approach to pornography recovery. Learn how childhood experiences, unprocessed emotions, attachment needs, and sexual triggers can shape pornography use—and how healing, practical tools, safe community, and Jesus can help men outgrow porn and experience lasting freedom.
Is an accidental chasm being created between spouses within the Christian recovery community? How do you know when you and your spouse are ready for couples work? And what do you do when one spouse is ready to heal together, but the other is not?
Learning to identify what truly fills us up can help us stay healthier, more connected, and more grounded in who God created us to be. In this post, we share how to recognize when you’re moving into the yellow circle, communicate your needs with greater honesty, and support one another with curiosity, grace, and teamwork.
What does it mean to be a biblically sexual man? Can masculine men also be deeply romantic? And how can we stop lusting and learn to embrace true beauty in other people? For many Christians, sexuality has primarily been taught through the lens of behavior.
Do not lust.
Do not look at pornography.
Do not cross boundaries.
Those boundaries matter. Purity and sexual integrity matter. But what happens when our entire understanding of sexual wholeness becomes reduced to whether we are “doing good” or “doing bad”?
Biblical masculinity isn’t defined by toughness, silence, or having it all together. In this conversation with Brook Mosser, we explore why honesty, humility, confession, and godly brotherhood are essential for men who want to lead, love, and live with integrity.
How do we raise wise kids in a sexually broken world without parenting from fear? This conversation with Laurie Krieg helps Christian parents approach hard conversations with truth, compassion, courage, and gospel-centered discipleship.
AI: The Greatest Threat to Health and Real Connection Since the Internet Artificial intelligence is no longer just something people use to write emails, create documents, or summarize information. It is quickly becoming something people relate to. And that is where the danger begins. In… Read More »AI, Pornography, and the Threat to Real Connection: What Every Couple and Parent Needs to Know
One day Clinton looked depressed after his therapy appointment. He was sad and had a distant look in his eyes. I asked him what was wrong, and his response made me feel confused, disturbed, and disgusted. His answer created a pit in my stomach, but… Read More »Why Does He Miss Pornography?! with Clinton and Charity Muñoz
In this episode, we interview Amanda and Katie, the founders of The Victory Collective. Together they have started a platform to share their story and normalize the struggle of pornography among girls and women. They are powerfully reaching a younger generation by giving them a… Read More »The Power of Confession with Victory Collective
Our favorite one-liners: “Trust is not a gift to be given, but is a responsibility to be earned.”“Healthy people make healthy relationships.”“What’s happening in the present is normally rooted in the past.”“Admitting our brokenness to our spouse is the first step in moving towards intimacy.”… Read More »Married Sex with Debra Fileta
